I absolutely love the season of love, and what better way to celebrate than with a Valentine’s Day gift guide? Since everyone experiences love differently, I thought it would be fun to tailor my Valentine’s day gift guide around your partner’s love language. After all, when you understand how your partner prefers to give and receive love, it ca make Valentine’s Day (and every day) that much better!

Valentine’s Day Gifts for him and her – Based on Love Languages

Acts of Service

For someone whose love language is Acts of Service, the key to their heart is through actions, not just words. Show your partner you care by planning a thoughtful date where you take the lead. Think: picking up a bouquet of flowers, or chocolates gathering the ingredients to cook their favorite meal, and creating a cozy, romantic dinner at home. If you’re thinking you can’t get him flowers let this Reddit Thread convince you otherwise. Guys would love flowers too! If you want to add an extra layer of excitement, surprise her with a reservation by sending her a funny cheeky text. 

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For an extra special touch, and if you have the budget for it, pick up an outfit for the dinner. For her a simple black dress (which she can wear again and again) paired with a pop of color like our Imperial Red Peep Toe Flats would be perfect. Our Womads flats are made with full-grain leather, are breathable, lightweight, and versatile—she can wear them every day!

For him, grabbing a high-quality pair of chinos and a fitted sweater is a great way to make him feel extra special—because he deserves to be spoiled too. Banana Republic is a fantastic spot for men's formal wear, with plenty of stylish options. If your partner tends to wear a lot of neutrals, opt for a darker hue to add some variety to his wardrobe. And if he doesn’t have much in the business-casual category, a classic neutral pair of chinos can be the perfect addition to kickstart his collection—something he can wear often and look sharp doing it.

Another thoughtful option is creating a personalized basket of their favorite things. A basket will show them you put time, thought and effort into something they’ll love. A basket is also great because you can customize it to their interests and to your budget.

If your partner loves traveling or if you have travel plans coming up you could build a basket based on travel essentials.  Check out my Travel Essentials Blog for ideas, and build a basket that’s practical, and personal.

Words of Affirmation

If your Valentine’s love language is Words of Affirmation, and if you’re not great with words, the first thing you do is find a song that describes how you feel or one that reminds you of your person. Better yet, if you have a song you both absolutely love, you can use this too and get a personalized Spotify plaque. 

The best part is you can customize it with your own photo and song choice, and another positive is you’ll be supporting small businesses on Etsy! There are tons of sellers that create something similar to this idea so shop around and a personalized gift will be perfect for a Valentine’s Day Gift for her and for him!

If you want to use your words, a card is perfect for someone whose love language is words of affirmation. A card and flowers can be an easy and beautiful gift. 

If you want to add more, you can pair the card with the new full-grain leather Womads Crossbody Bag or a leather satchel for him. The Womads crossbody bag is a great choice since it's easy to carry (you don't have to use your hands) and it comes in many different vibrant colors to choose from! Place the card inside the bag so when you give it to her, it will be a surprise within a surprise! For him Simons has authentic italian leather crossbody bags for men, another great way to add to the gift.

Physical Touch

For a partner whose love language is Physical Touch, gifts that encourage closeness and comfort are key. A weighted blanket will make an incredible gift for her. It's like wrapping her in a warm hug, with the added benefits of stress relief and better sleep. A big blanket can also be used as home decor and it's something she can use every day. 

For him, picking up body care products is a great gift for men who value physical touch. Picking up a scent you love so that they can think of you every morning. Kiehl’s has a line specific for men with a range of scents and products. 

A couples massage is another great way to bond for both him and her. It’s an intimate experience that promotes relaxation and increases connection. There are a ton more benefits to this for couples, check out this blog from Spa Theory that lists the benefits.

If you're in a long-distance relationship, or both lead very busy lives, matching bracelets can be a great idea especially for someone who loves closeness. The simple act of wearing something that reminds her of you can be really comforting. 

Customcuff.co has a wide variety but you have tons of options to shop around and find something based on your budget and preference. Other stores that you can look through: Etsy, or Tiffany. 

Quality Time

For those who value Quality Time, the best gift is one that allows for shared experiences. If your Valentine loves spending time with you, why not plan a mini getaway or book an Airbnb cabin for a weekend retreat? This is a fantastic option, especially since Valentine’s Day falls on a long weekend this year for both my American and Canadian friends.

Another fun and budget-friendly idea is a Guess Where Trip. This experience is an exciting way to spend a day making memories, as it’s a surprise adventure for the two of you. You can also pick a surprise adventure based on your interests and if you have a furry friend that can also tag along! The Guess Where Trips also made my holiday gift guide, which is not just themed for the Holidays btw, so if you want more ideas check it out!

Receiving Gifts

Some people just love receiving gifts, and if that’s your Valentine, you’re in luck—this is the easiest love language to shop for! Here are a few great gift ideas that your Valentine:

For the Baker:

If your Valentine loves to bake, NordicWare offers beautiful, high-quality bakeware that will add something unique and fun to their kitchen. It might make them super excited they might also just bake you a cake on the spot!

Another benefit to a gift like this is it's a practical gift that can be used for years.

If she loves fashion/Works in an office:

A new pair of Womads Leather Oxfords will make a timeless and practical gift. 

The new Womads Oxford shoes are perfect for the office and cooler weather. They are made with full-grain leather, and are breathable and lightweight—they will probably become her everyday shoe.

If he’s a fashion icon: 

If your guy is a fashion icon, loves to look nice or you are interested in adding to his wardrobe M&S is a great place to start. Picking up a high-quality quarter zip or cashmere sweater is a great Valentines day gift for him. Especially if he's the type of guy who sticks to shirts and jeans (trust me I know all too well) it is great to get them outside their comfort zone. 

For the Reader:

If your Valentine is a big reader you could pick up a Kindle. This is a great gift for anyone who loves to read, especially if they are on the go a lot. 

It’s portable, convenient, and allows them to carry an entire library in a bag. The Kindle starts at around $100 and goes up from there.

P.S we love you! 

Valentine’s Day is a special occasion to show the people you love how much they mean to you. While it’s not all about the gifts, putting thought and effort into something that resonates with your partner’s love language can make the day feel extra special. 

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